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It's All About State

How do you set up your most resourceful state – ahead of the time you need it? Or do you succumb to the whirlwinds of old feelings and behaviours?

What if we simply taught kids how to choose their emotional state ahead of time in order to get the best results – like at school or college? Because we can. It’s easy when you know how, so discover the secret of driving a Happy Brain!

Troubling Thoughts

Most people know what it’s like to feel afraid of pop up (intrusive) thoughts or even nightmares.


Glorious technicolour and surround sound mind-menacing tricks can loop inside our minds for what seems like an eternity. And because brains can’t distinguish between imagination and sensory based reality, we can easily react with survival-based brain chemistry. 

Time for Brain Buddies!

Brain Buddies help kids (and parents) edit their mind movies on purpose and change the feelings from troubling to tremendous.  

Find out more about your Happy Brain training opportunities to help children and teens build resilience through play and creativity. 

Next 2-day training course June 8-9 in Newcastle £295 includes certificate of attendance from Society of NLP as your introduction to or specialist application of NLP for working with children and teens. More dates announced soon.

Contact: HERE for more info and please share with those who may be interested.

Online blended learning programme launching this summer. 

What Can’t You Do?

How do you expand your child’s capacity for a ‘can do’ attitude?

Why is this important? Because when your child or teen says “I can’t…(eat that/do that/learn that)” it prevents them exploring what they can do.

Hearing someone declare a limitation ahead of real time capability-testing can be frustrating because it’s a sloppy recall of a failure-memory rather than imagineering-success. If you believe their ‘can’t’ you accept their limitation. Yet trying to persuade them that they ‘can’ do it (they ARE capable after all) so often engages a battle that sends them into the justification corner.

Helping children and young people experience more in life, not less, means they get to expand their mental map of what they can do with their brain.

This example from our Happy Brain programme, coaches a 10 year old child through an experience of high value to them. Gaming is the child’s value.  We’ll call the child Joseph.

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Melissa’s Magic Mirrors

  • Do you ever feel under pressure from the outside world?
  • Do you feel anxious around specific people, or in a particular place?
  • Would you like to feel more resilient and confident?

 

MIND & PLANT MAGIC!

Many people find Melissa’s Magic Mirrors a great way to deal with bullies. You teach yourself how to feel stronger and more resilient when people around you appear threatening.

This exercise is designed for children and adults and can be adapted to suit the individual – so do bespoke it!

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Switch Positive

Help yourself and help others to feel good on purpose.

 

Direct your mind to 3 things that you like about yourself.

3 things that you like about yourself:

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Direct your mind to 3 things you like about your family / home / work / class.

3 things you like about your family / home / work / class:

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